When it's Time to Re-Define
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Hello Fierce One,

Wow- I'll start off by humbly saying "It's been a while, huh?"


Last I wrote to you I was heart-deep in the writing of my first book, The Worthiness Revolution, and knew that I needed the space to go into the writing cave. 

So first of all- THANK YOU for your patience as I took a break from writing these love notes from my heart to yours here to focus on what I needed to do. 

One of the biggest lessons I've learned over the years is that when our soul is crying out for spaaaaaaace, something major is about to transpire.
 

I thought it was the writing of my book.

Turns out, it was actually the Re-Writing of Myself.


You know- no big deal ;) 

I joke, but the Re-Writing of Myself is exactly what 2018 has turned out to be- if you've been following me on social media you've seen the profound effects this year has had on me and how I show up in the world. I set out with the intention to focus on joy, write my book, support my existing clients and place a priority on supporting my body through the process.

{And interestingly, the book itself got accidentally, permanently deleted several months in. But that's a story for another day}.

What actually happened was: I came face-to-face with my ambition and what it really means to me, my original dream when I began this crazy journey of entrepreneurship 10 years ago, and a body transformation that I wasn't expecting but turned out to be the breath of fresh air I didn't even know I needed.
 

Sometimes we don't even know we need something until we commit to something else and get catapulted into another process altogether.


You might notice that the picture of me above looks a bit different than what you are used to seeing of me. Why? Over the past year I've not only lost 30 pounds and began stepping into the power of my body, but I've reconnected with my original intention of being an athlete again and inspiring women to feel amazing in their bodies. The body has ALWAYS been the access point in my work, and for years it was focused on healing pain much like I had done for myself.

But a funny thing happened when I began writing a book about worthiness- I had to come face-to-face with an area I felt great in- my body- but silently knew I was settling for less than what I felt worthy to embody. And with it came a quiet little angel nudging me to get real and naked with myself about my ambition, my fierceness, and all of the subtle levels in-between.

I felt like it was my dirty little secret that I actually wanted MORE from my experience in my body than simply feeling good and loving her. I had the self-love and body positivity game going STRONG, but the more I wrote and explored all of the complex corners of Worthiness, the more I just couldn't hide any longer from the deeper desires of how I wished to go beyond feeling good in my body (and my business) and move into the territory of fiercely thriving.

This past winter, I began to exist in the paradox so many of us seem to be coming to terms with right now:

That we can 1000% be madly in love with our bodies AND simultaneously have the desire to transform her into our own version of a powerful force of nature. And in some cases, that transformation is exactly the most fiercely loving thing we can do. 

You see- 10 years ago this month, I left the world of corporate finance to begin the journey of running my own wellness and fitness business. At the time I had no idea what it would look like, but I knew that it would involve helping women and men tap into the power of their body and the potential it had to transform lives. But at the time, my own body was healing from injuries that pushed me to the sidelines, made yoga the only feasible form of movement I could realistically do and threatened to keep me from a highly active lifestyle again.

The problem was this: after my body healed through the amazing body therapies I found & practiced for many years and I could return to my athletic pursuits, I chose instead to reside in the land of my excuses of all of the reasons that, instead, I told myself I could not.

I was running a business and didn't have time, I said. 
But what if the injuries come back, I pleaded.
Oh but my Lymes could flare up at any time, I justified.
And what about the condition of my lower spine getting worse, I hid behind.
But if I love & accept my body as she is, is it actually ok to want to change, I wondered.

When really, I was simply silently afraid: 
Afraid to truly thrive in my body.
Scared to shine too much.
Terrified of drawing too much attention to myself again (hello #MeToo).
Afraid other women in my communities of coaches & healers would not accept me if I wasn't soft and curvy anymore.
Scared of what I would actually be capable of if I had a lot of energy again.
And terrified of my own power.
 

But I learned that eventually, the pain of continuing to live in our fear and excuses outweighs the pain that comes from choosing to do the hard work to change.


{Any of this sound familiar? Do you have any of the same fears? If so- read on}

The turning point? Well it was my trip to Bali at this time last year. The same place that sent me on the trajectory into my spiritual awakening in 2009 ironically snapped me out of it and right back around to my original intentions that- in many ways- felt like they were put on pause as I fully healed myself in the years that followed.

When I was there this time around, I was so incredibly uncomfortable in my body- from breaking out to exhaustion to mood swings to extreme anxiety to a freak miscommunication that left me in a foreign country with only the cash I had on hand and more- to the point when I returned back to the United States, I began making decisions left and right to make changes in my life that were incredibly uncomfortable, but ultimately led me on a path to get my body THRIVING again.

But it wasn't just decisions around what I was eating or how I was moving- though those were absolutely important {and I will begin to cover in future newsletters}.
 

What really was the rocket fuel for me was taking a long, honest assessment of my relationships, my boundaries, and where I was squandering my power away in order to not rock the boat, not disappoint others or to fit into the status quo.


It's actually some of the trickiest work to do because it is SO subtle, and is so wrapped up in how we show up in our communities, our relationships and our interpersonal dynamics.

Suffice it to say: it was uncomfortable as hell. 

I had to end some friendships. I had to exit stage left of some communities I adored. I had to chose myself over pleasing a few people I really loved and respected. And I had to make some major financial commitments to support these decisions that I knew were for the best.

And through this, I faced a word that I had hidden deep behind a pocket of my heart for 10 years that was sick and tired of being hidden:
 

Ambition.


You see, I grew up an over-achiever. From valedictorian to summa cum laude into the halls of Wall Street, the name of the game for most of my life was being at peace with my ambition.

But then I found myself in communities where ambition was masked in words like service, and being 'successful' was simultaneously encouraged while also subtly demonized. Be successful- but not too much. Get healthy- but not too much. Go for your dreams- but not too much.
 

Notice the theme of "Don't be Too Much"?

Have you ever felt this pressure yourself? 


Ambition had quietly become a dirty word- a word that I somehow had blamed for how unhappy I had been in finance and used as the scapegoat for all of my pain- and I was no longer having it. 
 

I thought when I began writing about Worthiness that I would be exploring all the places where women are feeling Not Enough, but it turned out that most women I spoke with- myself included- were hiding behind that guise as a way of avoiding being Too Much.

 

I'm not the first to speak out about what I think are some dangerously toxic messages floating around in the realm of wealth, body image, spirituality, and more. Yet despite knowing it was toxic, my biggest fear of all was of rocking the boat. Of speaking up against women who had been mentors. Of going against what was becoming increasingly louder in popular culture in several extremes. 

This was keeping my body, my ambition, and my excuses locked in a battle of wills that was forcing me to run in place. And that running in place began to manifest as a mighty case of anxiety and depression- the two struggles that had launched me out of finance and into the world of self-development in the first place.

I had come full-circle by the time I landed back from Bali last fall, but not at all in the way I wanted to. 

So what happened when I started to create those boundaries and make peace with my ambition?

I started to have energy again to do MORE with myself and with my time. 

I began to have the courage to speak up a little louder about my thoughts on many subjects.

I wrote over 35,000 words of a book before I 'accidentally' deleted it {there are no accidents- and the best 30 pages were somehow miraculously saved. Oh yeah- and a new book began to speak through me just last month}.

I moved my horse Oliver to a new barn closer to my home and was told very lovingly to- as my grandfather used to say- shit or get off the pot by getting in shape for my safety or else risk getting seriously hurt.

And so I set my sights on my original dream but had abandoned in tears in the rice fields all those years ago when I somehow had convinced myself that my Ambition was the culprit that had made me so unhappy in finance:

To be an athlete again and inspire thousands of others to find the connection between thriving in the body and thriving in the rest of your life.
 

Or put more bluntly- making peace with your Ambition and fiercely Owning It. Body, Career, Relationships, and all.


One of the access points for this is through our body. Another is through our career & passions. Yet another our relationships. And so on.

As we focus on one, the others expand.

As we get clarity in another, they all begin to feel clear.

As we feel strong in any, all begin to feel powerful. 

So I began taking very intentional steps to reclaim my health, move my body, and have the confidence to take action in the world from a place of a thriving, Fierce Body. 

What gets tricky is that a fierce, thriving body looks and feels different for everyone, and even for each of us at different stages of our life. Where I must admit I had faltered, was slighting my own personal ambition by looking at how women I admired at the time defined thriving for themselves, and taking that on for myself.

Which was close to my Truth, but not quite. And so for years I felt great, but not fully ME in my body.

It's humbling to admit this now, especially after such a break since I last wrote here. But they say we must own the story we were living in to fully step into the next stage, and so here I am telling you one of my deepest secrets. If nothing else, I've always promised to be fiercely honest here, and this is me laying it all on the line that- for a while- I was not 100% living in my own Truth, but I couldn't even see it. 

Am I mad at myself? Not at all. There was something I was meant to learn and understand, and now that I do, it's game on. 

Though at times I do look at those lost years and wonder what might have been. What would have happened if I left finance in 2008 and came out blazing as the personal trainer & nutritionist I originally set out to be? What might have been if I had used my finance & business background even more and built a larger coaching practice sooner? What could I have created over those 10 years with all of the energy that I have now? 

This is why it's so important for each of us to own up to what the truth of our journey so far has been, so that we can have the strength of our experiences to move forward.   

And move forward I am. I am so incredibly excited about the changes I've made, how at home I finally feel in my own body, and how inspired I am to help others do the same for themselves.

Because you see- it's not about the weight lost or the muscle gained or what I look like in any of my clothes- that's why this is the first time I'm even sharing publicly that I lost over 30lbs lost and shed more than 10% body fat.

It took massive hard lifting of both the inner and outer variety to get here, and I won't sugar coat it that what I discovered is some sort of magic secret. There is no quick fix- and if someone is selling that to you, run the other way.

Rather, it's an entirely new way of approaching life, your desires, and making peace with your ambition with a fierce devotion that is necessary for transformation to occur.

And this new approach? It's radically shifted how I show up in the world. Not in how I look in my dresses, but how I feel about myself AND having the energy to finally do the damn things I've been saying for 10 years I want to do.

But I could never have done that if I didn't make peace with being an ambitious woman in the first place, with being a fierce woman at the core, with wanting to show up in the world as brightly as I can.

We women have been told for far too long that we need to do so- but Not Too Much.
 

Well Fierce One- I'm done with Not Too Much. And I have a feeling that maybe you are too.
 

So things are going to look a little different around here. I'll be talking a lot more, and writing a lot more here & on social media- especially Instagram. My 1:1 programs are open for enrollment once again and I've opened 8 spaces to work with me directly on anything from your body to your career to your relationships and more. 
 

In fact, my entire website is new so I invite you to explore.
 

Most exciting is, I've brought back my 3 Month fire-starter program under a new name, the Fierce Body Bootcamp. I know that a full year commitment is a big leap of faith for many of you, so I've created a shorter (but no less potent) program for those of you ready to go for it.

In this journey together, we turn the heat up to full blast to intensely address your deepest desires in walking the path of becoming who you wish to be in any and all areas of your life- body, health, business, career, relationships, and more. Available as a 3 month commitment (6 months also available), this journey may be the shortest time-wise of what I offer, it by no means is less potent. In fact, with the intense focus of lightening to bring to light the darkest places, we have the power for fast, furious transformation. 

For 3 months, we will meet 3 {three} times a month and kick off your program with a 2 Hour Open Session {all remaining sessions are 60 Minutes}.

Also includes email support and enrollment in my group program, The Fierce Collective {A $999 value}.

But for this week only, you can receive 20% OFF this program using the code FIERCE at checkout. Simply click Enroll and on the checkout screen, enter FIERCE in the discount code box to receive $500 off enrollment. {May also be used for the 6 Month option}

Expires Saturday 8/25 at midnight.

All of the information and the ability to directly enroll without booking a consultation first can be found by clicking the Fierce Body Bootcamp image below or directly HERE.

As soon as you enroll the Fierce Body ebook will be sent to you so you can begin working with the concepts right away. Within 24 hours of enrolling I will send you a personalized Welcome Email with all of the information to book your sessions and get started- which means your journey with your first session could start as soon as this week. 

Isn't it about time you said YES to yourself and showed up- fiercely?

I'm ready Fierce One- and I hope you are too.

The Rise of the Feminine and the Calydon Boar

Hello Warrior,

I always believe that from our darkest moments come our greatest opportunities. This article is a Call to a higher level perspective of recent happenings in our world- an eagle eye view- out of reactionary states and into deep Truth & grounded embodiment for sustainable action.

Often lasting change comes only after the Dark Night of the Soul- the Great Mystery that envelops us all- and I pray that we have turned the tide now out of the Dark Night and into the Ascension.

What's left me breathless in recent weeks is the building of awareness of the power that is possible when we allow the Divine Feminine to take her seat on the throne next to the Masculine.

Not over, not above. Next to and equal.

It's an energy that has been rising for years now in small communities and secret trainings. I marvel at the fact that even just two short years ago when I was teaching my Alchemy Rising program, this rising of the Feminine was still a 'fringe' concept.

Now we have movies like Wonder Woman inspiring many to embrace your inner warrior and take up the sword to fight for what you believe in. Books and articles and podcasts. It's inspired many women to start businesses, make radical choices, or become activists on social issues that previously would have been ignored or silently supported.

It's empowered women into massive action in business, family, professional life, body, health- and so much more.

It's breathtaking. It's beautiful. It's jaw-droppingly awesome.

And I fear- it's gone too far into some of the shadow aspects of what the Fierce Feminine brings to the table

These shadow aspects that are arising also need to be faced, integrated and loved, in order for the REAL Rise of the Feminine into True Sovereignty to take place. 

One of my gifts- that I long took as a curse- is an oracular ability to see straight into the heart of the matter without an emotional attachment. What I see can sometimes be raw, dark and uncomfortably confronting- and yet I somehow have the ability to see all sides of the situation clearly, even when I am shocked or have an opinion.

When I read the news, watch trends, or notice patterns in places like the economy or social media, I often don't get fired up or reactionary like many people do {Things in my personal life? Well that's a whole other story of learning to choose my battles wisely. But that's a story for another day}.

Which may look to the outside world like not speaking up, but is actually something else altogether.

Instead, I have an eerie ability to zoom out and see the long game- which is why many have called me an Oracle over the years- a modern day Priestess of Delphi if you will. Yes- I have had past-life visions there and when I visited Delphi at 20 years old, my world literally SHOOK in knowing. Which I promptly tried to run and numb from, until it was time to own it.

On that note- let's get started by first going back a few thousand years, shall we?

I'm going to make this quick, as literally books upon books have been and will be written about this. But long story short, most cultures up until about 2000 years ago revered the feminine, the Great Mother, the goddess. She was the primary go-to for everything from fertility to death, and honoring her was a part of everyday life for men, women and children. Women were the primary healers based on ancient earth remedies and body wisdom- and were respected for their gifts. 

Oracles such as the one at Delphi were THE resource for kings, queens, and citizens to consult before any major decision or in the face of difficult situations. Pilgrimages to see her were regular, and festivals dedicated to the mysteries of the goddess- such as at Eleusis- were required at least once in a lifetime. 

But then, the spread of the Roman Empire and the rise of Christianity began to slowly put out the flame of the Feminine Spiritual Authority. I don't blame Christianity or cry foul of the Patriarchy as many do.

Zoom out for a moment and realize that in many ways, as the world population grew and for the first time in history, one unifying force was attempting to govern all of the local tribes, thousands of customs were quite simply- a problem. Not a problem in a sense of what they actually were or represented, but simply in the fact that they were all different.

Because different equaled hard to govern. And therein was the core of how the Patriarchy began to rise in power. 

A note: I use the word Patriarchy here, but I must admit that it is a word I despise. Because it creates separation. Because the emotional charge that comes with it tries to erase all of the abundance and advances that also came within this period of history.

But mostly because the vengeance with which many women use it tries to lay blame on the Masculine. And where there is blame & shame, there are undercurrents of victimhood. And that my loves, I am NOT a stand for.

Does it excuse the extinguishing and in most cases annihilation of the Divine Feminine? Absolutely not. Terrible, horrible, inhuman things happened in this quest- and women have every right to be absolutely pissed about how things went down.

So fast forward to today- the rapid increase of opportunities for women, the fairly recent ending of slavery in most of the world, the rise of social activism- they are all relatively new concepts. 

The Feminine is rising alright- and it is a fast ascent.

I envision it as women growing their wings- nay realizing they've had them all along- and taking flight. So of course it's to be expected that some turbulence would be encountered along the way.

We're adjusting to a new way of being in our power- in what is really the blink of an eye in our collective history.

And yes- the collective Feminine is pissed at how she has been treated for the past several thousand years.

BUT SHE ALSO KNOWS WITH AN EAGLE-EYE VIEW THAT THE VIOLENCE AND DARKNESS HAVE BEEN ESSENTIAL TO THE GREATER QUEST OF UNION AND SOVEREIGNTY. 

For those of you who have been exploring the many faces of the Fierce Feminine, you probably know exactly what I'm talking about- this isn't your soft and peaceful spirituality or goddess sitting on a mountain handing you flowers kind of stuff.

Oh no- this is a goddess who means business.

THIS ANGER IS RAW. THIS PASSION IS EDGY. THIS FIERCENESS IS BLOOD DRIPPING FROM THE MOUTH OF KALI AND ARTEMIS'S BOW & ARROW AIMED STRAIGHT AT THE HEART OF WHAT HAS BEEN REPRESSED, DEPRESSED, AND SUPPRESSED FOR SO MANY, FOR SO LONG.

Whether or not you choose to believe in Her, the Divine Feminine- She's here like whether we like it or not.

We as women are being called to fiercely embody Her, and I believe men are being called to fully see Her.

As I watch in my circles it's like popcorn popping as woman after woman wakes up to this Call.

Like I said- it's breathtaking. Women waking up to their beauty. Opening their hearts. Feeling the softness AND fierceness of who they really are. 

BUT IT'S BECOME VERY CLEAR TO ME THAT IF WE ARE GOING TO TAKE UP ARMS TO STEP FULLY INTO THE SOVEREIGNTY OF THE DIVINE FEMININE, THEN WE HAVE A LOT OF WORK TO DO TO ALSO INTEGRATE ALL OF HER.

THE SHADOW SIDE, THE FIERCE RAWNESS, THE WARRIOR WHO ALSO COMES WITH THE TERRITORY.


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Back to present day- a country reeling from a massive wound exposed and a leader not taking a firm stand.

All of the anger, all of the shadows, all of the not-so-pretty places hidden in the folds of the lovely goddess dresses and flower crowns came tumbling out.

Like the insides of an animal struck down by a hunter.

LIKE THE RISE- AND FALL- OF THE CALYDON BOAR.

If you know anything of Greek Mythology, you have heard of the goddess Artemis.

Artemis is the original badass. At one with nature and all of her being, a fierce hunter with the deadly aim of her bow & arrow, a force of raw feminine POWER.

I could go on for days about the virtues of this incredible goddess. What's important to know here is that Artemis is the divine representation of Sovereignty.

BY STANDING IN HER TRUE POWER, SHE HOLDS ALL OF CREATION TOGETHER IN HARMONY AND UNION.

It's that harmony that gives us our natural cycles- from a woman's menstrual cycle, to the food chain, to the seasons, to the birth-death-rebirth cycle, to cultures, states and nations co-existing.

If I had to name the Divine Feminine authority who is tied to what is arising in our nation- and world- right now, Artemis would be Her.

But here's the thing- for every archetype there is a shadow side, and well- goddesses are known to often feel emotions just like ours such as anger, rage and jealousy. 

You don't mess with a Fierce Feminine goddess, and if you do, there will be consequences to face.

There is a well-known myth about one such time when Artemis felt slighted by a King.

The King of the forest kingdom of Calydon held a celebration. All of the country was involved, and honors were made to many gods and goddesses.

Except Artemis. 

In her feelings of being rejected and not properly honored, Artemis unleashed the wild Calydon Boar to terrorize the kingdom in retribution.

But this boar was no ordinary boar- it ravished the villages and killed many in it's path of destruction.

IT WAS LIKE THE KINGDOM WAS EATING ITSELF ALIVE THROUGH THE MOUTH OF A BOAR WHO WISHED TO DESTROY EVERYTHING IN IT'S PATH.

Heros and would-be heros from across the ancient world descended on the kingdom to be the one to take down the boar and save the land. It was a job for only the greatest of men- or so you would believe.

Until a woman showed up- Atalanta. Atalanta had grown up in the forest and if ever there was a human embodiment of Artemis, she would be the one. Atalanta was in love with the King's son- a secret romance happening under the cover of the trees. A union of equals. Their relationship had formed in the forest, and their love was a true merging of the Masculine and Feminine.

But when Atalanta joined the party to go kill the boar, the heros and would-be heros were none-too-pleased. But join them she did with her lover- the privileged son of the King who felt more at home in the forest than in the castle.

And you can probably guess what happened next. It was the arrow from Atalanta's bow that struck the wild boar in-between the eyes, and it was the strike of her lover's sword across the boar's neck that dealt the final deathblow.

They achieved the seemingly impossible. 

Together. 

There are many pieces of this story to unpack, but for the purposes of this article I want to focus in on three:

1. THE BOAR:

Take a look at what is happening in the United States and the world at large today. From the eagle-eye view, it's clear that certain paths of destruction are running rampant across many plains: environmentally, socially, culturally, politically, economically. In some cases the clearing from the destruction is opening up whole new fields of opportunity, such as the drastic increase in female entrepreneurship arising from our most recent recession. 

But in most cases, the destruction is festering- and feeding on itself. Protests becoming violent as people who are likely neighbors clash in their ideals- and are now becoming deadly. Law-enforcement killing those they are sworn to protect. Companies battling it out and fighting nature. Nations sanctioning each other. 

If I was just arriving on planet earth today, in the midst of so much beauty and abundance there appears to be something eating away at the heart of what makes humanity so great.

A modern Calydon Boar, eating away at the core of who we are as a human race. Releasing our shadows to be seen and dealt with in each bite taken. 

And so the Calydon Boar is not an actual boar at all that must be slayed, but rather is the internal force of reckoning that has the potential to destroy- but also the potential to create anew from that destruction.

2. A WOMAN FACING AND STANDING UP TO HER INNER SHADOWS:

It takes some fierce courage for a woman to stand up to a wild boar that is consuming the land. 

And it takes even more fierce courage for a woman to face all of her shadows, all of those things which are standing in her way, all of her resistance, to be able to take that stand. 

THE STAND AGAINST THE BOAR AND THE AIM OF HER ARROW IS NOT WHAT IS IMPRESSIVE. 

IT'S THE STAND IN THE FACE OF HER OWN INNER SHADOWS THAT WINS THE PRIZE FOR BEING THE MOST COURAGEOUS ACT A WOMAN CAN TAKE. 

As Jean Shinoda Bolan, M.D. says in her incredible book Artemis: The Indomitable Spirit in Everywoman:

"It takes courage to confront the inner boar, for doing so means that a woman must confront her own destructiveness directly. To do so, she has to see- better yet, feel- how much damage she has done to herself and others by trampling on their feelings, or on what they have been tending that she did not value. She needs to feel remorse for the contempt and judgement she unleashed on others in the past, and realize that only she can stop it. With this intention and determination, she can rein in those feelings. Whether in a family matter or global one, to become an avenging goddess is a bad thing for a woman and those around her- who are, after all, not all bad, as she tends to feel once she gets worked up.... Confronting the inner boar can become a lesson in humility" [Emphasis added by me]

This right here is exactly the process I myself have been in the past few weeks and really the past 9 months. Looking hard at what role I have played in what is happening in my communities and greater society at large. Taking personal responsibility. Deciding how to move forward and what stand I wish to take. And so much more.

Here we are at what I feel is the critical juncture of the Rise of the Feminine. Up until now, it's been easy to blame the Patriarchy. To have the battle cry of RISING UP be the fuel to the fire not just in the past few decades in our country, but the past 2,000 years in our world.

I'm aware that this might piss some women off. That it might speak to my priviledge of having the freedom to do this inquiry work in the first place. And I absolutely agree. 

I have always believed that if one is blessed with privilege, then there is a Divine Responsibility to work with what you have and use that privilege for good- in a way that feels in alignment for YOU. We can't force it- it must come from the heart, or it will never work in the long-run.

I will not lower myself down to make others more comfortable, but rather I will hold the sword high so others may have the courage to meet me here- so we can then Rise even higher together.

AN EMPOWERED WOMAN EMPOWERS.

AN ECONOMICALLY EMPOWERED WOMAN CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS.

AND A SOCIETY OF ECONOMICALLY EMPOWERED WOMEN- WHO BELIEVE IT IS POSSIBLE TO PARTNER WITH THE MASCULINE AS TRUE EQUALS- HAS THE POTENTIAL TO CHANGE THE WORLD.

AND SLAY THE CALYDON BOAR ONCE AND FOR ALL.

If marching does not feel right for you, find another way to speak up.

If speaking up on social media feels incongruent for you, then have private conversations to effect change.

If going to a protest gets you fired up with passion, then go. Speak. Believe. 

If starting a nonprofit, joining a group, expanding your platform are what feel in alignment, then go for it with all of your heart.

And a million other options. What works for one will not work for another, and so we all need to find our way, and do so with grace.

BUT FIRST- love- please stand down your shadows and then move forward.

BECAUSE WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU DON'T?

THEN THE BOAR WILL COME TUMBLING THROUGH ONCE AGAIN TO BE FACED.

Women will attack other women, men attacking other men, and so on- demanding they speak up and then tearing them down if their opinion differs. Bullying. Shaming. Attacking behind computer screens and avenging in the name of... well in the name of a number of things.

What I've witnessed the past few weeks, is exactly that. But what makes me even more fired up is that this has been happening for years in our communities and our counrty- and it is time for it to stop.

There have been a few voices rise up that brilliantly cut through the noise like a knife straight to the heart of the matter.

But there have been many voices that are simply brandishing the sword haphazardly in the name of justice in places where what they see does not fit exactly what they wish to see.

The point of embodying the Fierce Feminine, the Inner Warrior, is not to cut others down {I've learned this the hard way over the years}, but rather to cut down all the ways you resist who you are, all the metaphorical things that stand in your way, all the internal boars that are tearing you apart- and having the courage to stand tall with all of the pieces put together.

And so this Calydon Boar that's unleashed itself- it means business until we have the courage to look inside and stop it.

3. WHICH BRINGS ME TO MY THIRD AND FINAL POINT: THE POWER OF THE MASCULINE AND FEMININE RISING TOGETHER

How the boar is finally stopped brings chills to my spine every time I think of it. A couple who was so in sync with each other, so utterly equals, that finally were able to stop the chaos of the boar.

Stop and think about it.

The King's son- the archetypal figurehead of the rise of the patriarchy- was only able to save his kingdom with the help of the Feminine. And not just any Feminine- a Fierce Feminine woman who embodies her own sovereignty, her own domain over her own life. Not a damsel in distress or a goddess who rules the home, but a raw, strong, courageous woman who owns who she is- even in a group of legendary heros.

If that's not the Fierce Feminine, I don't know what is.

WHAT MADE THIS POSSIBLE FOR HER WAS NOT THAT SHE WAS OUT TO AVENGE OR TEAR DOWN, BUT RATHER SHE WAS CLEAR IN WHAT NEEDED TO HAPPEN, SHE HAD FACED ALL OF HER INNER RESISTANCE BEFORE SHE STEPPED FOOT ON THAT QUEST TO FIND THE BOAR, AND SHE INVITED THE MASCULINE TO PARTNER WITH HER, INSTEAD OF TRYING TO RISE ABOVE HIM.

AND SHE DIDN'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT HOW ANYONE ELSE WAS DOING IT, BUT RATHER FOCUSED ALL OF HER ENERGY ON HER OWN MISSION AT HAND.

As many myths go, there was not a happy ending to this particular story. The prince's uncles did not like that a woman accomplished what they could not, and tragic ends resulted for both them and the prince.

But the lessons for us today are no less potent. 

Yes- the Rise of the Feminine is here. I have been saying this in my circles for years now. And the higher we rise, the even more we must continue to rise to meet the occasion.

Fight anger by facing your own anger within first.

Instead of resisting, clear your own resistance to truly soar.

Find your voice- and ignore how anyone else believes you need to use it. 

As the Feminine rises, we are each finding our own way in how we are being called to stand up.

We are each meeting our own personal Calydon Boar as well as the collective one.

We are each being Called to stand WITH the Masculine.

Not above. Not below. 

WITH. 

And that is the TRUE Rise of the Feminine.